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  • Our Cranky Hearts are Leading Us Home
  • An Illusion of Freedom
  • Thoughts About Obscurity
  • The God Who Wants to Be Found – Pt. 1
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So I kind of refuse to be an influencer. It’s one of my biggest things. As I hear of social media personalities who weren’t being real (and some who have even gotten arrested recently), I’m even more firm in my beliefs. “This is about more than politics. Politics is the evidence of collapse. The Evangelical Industrial Complex (churches, para churches, media, institutions, etc.) needs an overhaul. Six months ago I didn’t have an Instagram following and then this reel (with different music) went viral and here you all are! 😂👏 You guys, it’s been a week. (And yes, I got caught in the rain.) A LONG week that was also super full and I haven’t had a minute of extra time to create anything. So instead, here’s a little bit about me. In case you were wondering where I got the ideas from my stickers. 😆 Some were from great authors and others were from not as great men. 😬 I’ll be honest, it’s taken a lot of work to rethink my beliefs around emotions and faith. Nopety-NOPE! Been there, done that, not doing it again. Many thanks to @bethallisonbarr and her books for the final push in setting me free. 😁👏 Seriously though—can we get a new timeline? So here’s a story for you from the cult days. 🤣 (And I totally spelled “weird” wrong. I promise that has more to do with long days at work than it does with being homeschooled.)
  • God Ponderings,  Things We Don't Talk About

    The Only Condemnation was in the Commentary

    I’ve reached a pretty important conclusion. God isn’t who we think He is. I realize that the Old Testament God often has a bad reputation. It might be hard to hate Jesus, unless you’re an uber-religious leader, but Jehovah of the Old Testament does some pretty terrible things. He’s harsh and demanding. Or is He? I’ve been puttering around in the Old Testament during my morning devo time for the past four months or so. Basically ever since a well-known preacher told Christians to “unhitch” from it…I know, I’m a total rebel. 🙂 So far I’ve made it through Judges, Ruth, and First Samuel. I’m working my way through Second…

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    Choosing Trust

    (Re-blogged with some  tweaks from a post I originally wrote a few year ago.) Looking at the ultrasound monitor, I didn’t need anyone to tell me. I knew as soon as I saw him. My baby was dead. Less than an hour later, we sat silently in a small waiting room, surrounded by dim lighting and multiple Kleenex boxes, waiting for the doctor. Four weeks ago our baby was wiggling all over that monitor, waving to us, measuring just right, looking good. And now he was dead. Why would God do this to us again? We had just lost our first baby seven months ago. By the time I started miscarrying at…

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  • An Impostor Jesus,  God Ponderings,  Things We Don't Talk About

    The Value of Losing Our Faith

    I’m not sure what I believe these days. I think I’m losing faith. I don’t even like going to church. I don’t know how to be a Christian any more. Scarily honest statements. Beautifully raw. Terrifying to admit even to ourselves. If you said them to the wrong person, they might have freaked out. And you may have gotten an earful of Christianese — those secret phrases and well known statements that only make sense to other Church People. There may have been panic on their faces. They might have interrupted you with Bible verses and prayer chains. I’m sorry! Perhaps you have kept your doubts and questions to yourself…

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  • Exposing Legalism,  God Ponderings,  Things We Don't Talk About

    “Unhitching” from a Misused Old Testament

    On Wednesday, The Christian Post ran an article about Pastor Andy Stanley’s recent sermon where he stated that, “Christians need to unhitch the Old Testament from their faith.” The Internet went crazy. I’ve taken three days to think and process before I respond. Because, while I disagree with Pastor Stanley, I also agree. I believe that we do need to abandon the Old Testament in a way…just not the way he suggests. Stanley expressed concern that the Old Testament has caused people to leave their faith, and he wanted people to reconsider a Jesus without all the baggage of the the “Jewish Scriptures.” Unfortunately, while that’s really sweet, it doesn’t…

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  • \'rant\ : to talk in a noisy, excited, or declamatory manner,  Exposing Legalism,  Things We Don't Talk About

    Who was the Real Deborah?

    I struggle with the idea that we small, “wise” humans can decide which parts of the Bible are no longer true.  But I have discovered something that irks me even more. “Truths” that get added to the Bible at some point and then keep getting taught for generations even when they aren’t actually there. I recently read the story of Deborah the prophetess and judge in Judges 4. Initially thinking I knew the story, I quickly became puzzled. Some of it was missing! While raised in ultra-conservative patriarchy I’d been taught that Deborah was wrong to be a woman in leadership. She was only leading because there were no men…

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Christy Lynne Wood

Christy is a lover of Jesus and a hater of religion. She is a writer, speaker, podcaster, and hopeful author. After spending her teens in a cultic subgroup of Christianity, Christy is passionate about the truth and about helping people find a genuine relationship with Jesus Christ.

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